When Stars Misguide Us

A new idea I have on what to write about. Times and moments of misunderstandings I have had in my life. Is there anything to learn from it or is life full of random events with no meaning?

Entry #1

A series of being misunderstood

I am a misunderstood individual. I have realized that I do it to myself.

I am a walking contradiction and have mixed beliefs and views on almost everything.

I am a thinker, so therefore nothing is concrete, no idea, concept, or belief, but I do have my own beliefs. I understand that everyone is living different lives and we all are complex individuals with changing emotions and thoughts.

How can any of us be right? How can any of us be wrong? At the end of the day, who cares?

Try to search for what is meaningful to you but don’t hold on to it too closely.

Question it. Research it. Learn other positions that might be opposite of what you believe in because it will either help you understand your stance more deeply or it might open your mind to a new belief.

I don’t get mad if someone has a different belief than me. I am only curious about why and how they believe in it.

I don’t think that I am right, or wrong; I only think that I am a human being who is changing everyday. We all no matter what are growing either in a negative or positive way.

I Try To Be A Good Citizen

I want to share stories with you about moments in my life where I have been completely misunderstood.

Where I have been hurt, or put down for no reason.

From childhood stories, high school stories, and even now as a grown man people completely misunderstand me.

I try to trust in humanity, and I try to be civilized and polite, but somehow I always end up being misguided. I understand that in life we all will go through some kind of misunderstanding with people, but it happens to me a little more often, and people are a little more rude towards me.

I am an outgoing and happy person. No matter who you are or where I am at I will look into people’s eyes and say hi to them, and if they want to we can have a conversation.

I am an open person as well as my family. Even my 16-month-old daughter looks at people in the eyes and says Hi!

Disney World Gets Crazy Sometimes

It might sound like I am over exaggerating or whining but if you keep up with my writings you will see that I have been involved in strange situations with strangers and family members.

Some examples would be at Disney with my two little brothers one of them seven, the other was thirteen, and my wife who was my girlfriend at the time was sixteen. I was seventeen and we all were on the monorail at Disney World.

We were heading back home. Me, my brothers, and my girlfriend (who is my wife now) were talking about the day we had and smiling and laughing with each other.

An older woman with two little girls sitting beside her tapped in on my lower back (I was standing) and I looked back at her and she looked angry and told me “You all need to stop laughing at my children”.

I couldn’t believe what she said. I said, “I am sorry but there is a misunderstanding, I didn’t even see you or your children behind me, and I am laughing with my family”.

Then her husband from across the monorail yells at me and says “Is there a problem that I have to fix” he was saying it aggressively at me.

The wife says “It’s okay” and I say “Your wife thinks I am laughing at them but I am laughing with my family and it is a misunderstanding”.

This grown man stood up and yelled at me “Shut up!”

I said, “I do not have to shut up because I am an American and I have the freedom to speak”.

This comment made him angry, he began to yell more and use curse words at me.

Then he looked at his friend (both of them had their children’s strollers in their hands) and said looks like we have to teach him a lesson.

I say “Go ahead, I am not scared of either of you”.

The monorail door opens and I tell my little brothers and girlfriend to leave first because I didn’t want anything to happen to them.

They leave and as we are exiting the monorail the two grown men try to hit me with their children’s strollers.

Luckily the park was crowded and we all got scattered in the crowd.

I couldn’t see them and I guess they weren’t looking for me. So I headed toward the main entrance and my brothers and girlfriend were there waiting for me. I told them “Everything is okay, let’s go home”.

I was only seventeen years old; having a good time with my family and girlfriend.

We all were season pass holders and would go to disney world all the time.

This was a strange event that I still think about ten years later because what did I do?

Is it the way that I look or act? Or was it that this family had a long stressful day and wanted to take it out on someone?

Well, this is not my only story like this; I have plenty of more that I will be writing about.

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