When Stars Misguide Us

Contemplating family relationships that I have lost in a single year for reasons that have nothing to do with my wife or me.

Article written on: Aug 26th 2024

It amazes me how in a year’s span of time, I have lost most of my family relationships. In total, 15 individuals no longer care or contact my new family and me.

All I have left are my parents and brothers. My new family consists of me, my wife, my daughter (one year old), and my soon-to-be-born son (my wife is 4 months pregnant).

All 15 individuals I have never argued with, fought with, or put down in any way. I was never disrespectful to any of them, my entire life. I always treated them kindly and gave them my all.

Whenever someone needed their car to get jump I was there. When someone needed help moving in or out of a home or apartment, I was there. When someone was feeling down and depressed, I would drive and pick them up and take them out.

When anyone at all needed someone to talk to and listen to them, I was always there. Never ignored any calls or texts. I helped all of them with their emotional problems and physical problems.

I exposed them to new music, movies, art, food, places to go, etc. I even taught some of them how to play guitar. I was always a friend and important family member to all of them.

So you might be asking yourself, “Why did they all leave you?” “Why don’t any of them contact you?” The answer is I really don’t know.

They all live in the same state as me; all are less than an hour away. Only two of them live out of state. All those broken relationships, besides three of them, were reasons that have nothing to do with me, but with other family members.

The other three is because they were jealous and hurt by the fact that my wife was pregnant (her family members).

My wife’s family members have been toxic to her and us for the entire ten years we were dating, but once we were married and she was pregnant, the toxicity got to a level that my wife and I couldn’t handle so I had to bring it to a stop.

Some of the things that these people were saying were so hurtful and crazy. For example, one of them sai,d “I never want to see your baby, I have no desire to see it because you will just ghost me anyway, you are the reason for all my problems”. A 30-year-old woman said this with no context or reasoning on why.

There is a lot more, but I do not wish to gossip or get into details. I am only writing about this because it gives me questions.

If this many people that I gave my soul to for most of my life since I was 4 or 15 years old leave me without caring is it my fault? Am I the one who everyone is running from or is it that it is all of them?

If things happen for a reason in life, what is this reason? Is the reason to have less family in my life?

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