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    Must I Give Up On The Ones Who Need Saving The Most

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    What do you do when you can’t help someone you once cared for?

    Someone whom you will always hold dear to your heart, but whose heart has turned cold, and when you talk to them, it feels like inhaling toxic air.

    You can’t breathe, and afterwards you feel stressed and sick.

    Time reveals everyone.

    Sadly, I learned that I have to leave the ones that are broken.

    I don’t want to; I want to be there for them, but it has been years, and they are getting worse, more broken.

    Now the lost feelings are turning into anger and hate towards my new family and me, but I still feel so much for them. I know that I can’t help them and I have no desire to fix them, but I know that I can love them.

    Must I give up on the ones who need saving the most?

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    6 responses to “Must I Give Up On The Ones Who Need Saving The Most”

    1. Cooking and Literature Friend Avatar
      Cooking and Literature Friend

      The desire to help is noble, but there also needs to be a desire to be helped. You have to be mature yourself.

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      1. When Stars Misguide Us Avatar
        When Stars Misguide Us

        Awesome words! Thank you.

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    2. Julia Avatar
      Julia

      It is wonderful to see someone who genuinely cares for others, yet you are suffering by the choices the people you love are making. Therein lies your answer my Dear……… The way we choose to treat others is a reflection of who we truly are. If these loved ones you care so much for only want to argue or just not care how they are treating you, then they need to be left to live the way they have chose.

      You cannot carry the burdens of others and expect to be living your life to the fullest as God intended. To care as much as you do for others, you surely must love the Lord. Sound advice is given when He said the following “And if the house be worthy, let your peace come upon it: but if it be not worthy, let your peace return to you. And whosoever shall not receive you, nor hear your words, when ye depart out of that house or city, shake off the dust of your feet.”

      You can spend the rest of your life trying to have those who do not care they are draining you for your affection, but will find they will continue their life living and hurting whoever they want while your health fails.

      I pray the following article will help you.

      https://www.christieferrari.com/assertiveyou/2025/11/14/why-your-body-feels-sick-around-certain-people

      Be Blessed
      Julia

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      1. When Stars Misguide Us Avatar
        When Stars Misguide Us

        Thank you so much for this insightful and powerful message Julia. I truly appreciate you taking the time to read what I write and give such positive feedback. I agree with you and that scripture really hits home. Also the article that you linked is great information on what I am trying to solve. Once again I appreciate you greatly.

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    3. Michele Anderson Avatar
      Michele Anderson

      I would say “Yes.” Sometimes you just have to walk away.

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    4. CAN’T DO THIS IN A GYM! Avatar
      CAN’T DO THIS IN A GYM!

      No…

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